Complain complain complain

I will never understand why people feel the need to say random "crap" to me...

For instance here is a list that in the month Nick has been gone the following things have been said to me: ( whats shocking is people still say random "crap" to me.)

1. You arent going to be able to deal with two kids on your own... ( hmmm, did you just win the mother of the year award?)

2. At least my husband gets to be here for the birth of our daughter... ( hmmm, that one backfired on you didnt it?)

3. What a horrible thing for your husband to do - go to korea for a year even though you are pregnant and your children are young. ( hmmmm, such is the military life?)

4. Your husband is gone, oh my how are you ever going to survive a year? ( hmmmm, lets see not with your support obviously.)

There is more, but I want to share something a little more positive....

1. Today at the post office I was juggling Taylor and a package and the diaper bag and obviously addyson out in front of me... I get to the counter and my phone starts going off... The lady goes you can answer that, me shocked because I didnt want to be rude, replied thanks its my husband he is deployed right now... ( I say deployed because it is easier to explain to non military people) She said no no dont apologize answer your phone I will wait- Can I just say the line was already out the door.

2. The overwhelming support system I have- this past weekend like mentioned in a previous post I was able to enjoy some mommy time and had a break from Taylor.

Can I just please once again vent to people... if you DO NOT have anything nice or uplifting to say to me PLEASE DO NOT say anything to me at all ... and in fact do me a favor and delete my number/ off your FB whatever it may be.

Im so thinking a friend purge is needed soon.