Monday, February 7, 2011

Military Life

You always here about military spouses cheating and leaving their spouses while they are on deployments...

Im not that girl/woman... my husband is gone yes but I will not be the one to cheat. I cant stand hearing the stories from friends about who cheated on who. I also get annoyed when people complain about their marriage and the fact that their husband is gone... get over it... seriously you knew that he would be gone when you married him and you knew that it would happen. So suck it up and deal with it or dont be married to the military.

I also get annoyed when spouses tell their fellow partner that they think they need to change their career. ( get out of the military etc...) Really? Come on if Nick told me Janine I do not want you to do what you love and help others ... I would laugh and tell him thats to bad... Nick and so many others are fighting for our freedom... they arent just working long hours and spending up to a year away from their families because they think its fun... they do it because they know that a sacrfice needs to be made in order to protect our freedom.

I am fortunate enough to have several friends that have told me over and over I have every right to complain about my husband being gone... but really all I can do is tell them how proud of my husband I am. Yes I have to deal with medical problems and two young children without him here. But such is our life right now! I wouldnt change it...

Yes I do miss my husband but he is making one hell of a airman! I love you babe! and we are all proud of you!!!

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